Inspirational Stories: “The Bamboo and the Mango Tree” (from an old post)


AESOP FABLES: “The Bamboo and the Mango Tree”

A lesson on humility and flexibility:

Mango Tree and Bamboo grew up together. One day, Mango Tree asked Bamboo:

Bamboo: “why are you so thin? Look at me. My trunk is big and strong.”

Mango: “I may be thin but I am not weak.”

“Are you sure you are not weak? Besides, what help do you give to people? You don’t bear fruit.”


“I may not bear fruit, but people love to eat my shoots.”

“You don’t give much shade. Look at me. People want to rest under my shade.”

Bamboo:“People use me in building their houses, bridges, and many things.”

“If they always do that, there will be nothing left of you.”


That night, a strong wind came. Mango Tree stood proudly against the wind. But Bamboo bent his head and bowed to the wind.

index33The storm stopped in the morning.The mango tree was rooted. But Bamboo was still standing.


This story reflects on the principles of humility and self awareness of one’s flaws. The unswaying proud mango tree which mocked the bamboo’s weaknesses ended up broken and uprooted because of its arrogance and unyielding attitude.The bamboo knew itself, particularly its faults and weaknesses, but in acknowledging and accepting them, it found itself standing tall and noble, able to spring back from adversity.

Sometimes we need to learn from the bamboo when life brings us storms and winds, instead of standing firm on our self righteousness and narrow views, opinions and convictions,  perhaps becoming more flexible, open minded and humble. may help us to weather the storms and not crash and break down like the proud mango tree.

Just like the teachings in martial arts, instead of using all your might and strength to fight the enemy, to defend your points of view, be flexible and open minded , a bend-but-don’t-break attitude or go-with-the-natural-flow approach is one of the secrets for success dealing with the everyday vagaries of life.


Wisdom from Bruce Lee:

Notice that the stiffest tree is most easily cracked, while the bamboo or willow survives by bending with the wind.”

The happiest people in the world are flexible. They do not have rigid beliefs or try to control and manipulate their surroundings to make them happy.


“Simplicity is the key to brilliance.”

Simplify your life and eliminate the unnecessary. We as a society have been taught to consume and amass material possessions.

Luckily, we are starting to realize that this doesn’t work. Happiness comes from the inside, not from the outside. Simplicity gives you clarity and peace of mind.


“The martial arts are ultimately self-knowledge. A punch or a kick is not to knock the hell out of the guy in front, but to knock the hell out of your ego, your fear, or your hang-ups.”.


17 Comments Add yours

  1. I love this soooo much! 😍 Thanks for this brilliant story about bamboo and mango tree. Yes, indeed! “Bend without breaking”. Thank you.

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    1. Oh, thank you so much dear friend! Nothing delights me more than to hear that you enjoyed this post! I will be posting a Haiku poem soon about the bamboo, with this lesson of “bending without breaking” You may enjoy this too. Hope to see you again and thank you for your kind comment! 🙂

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      1. You will definitely see me again. I can’t wait for the haiku poem. Thanks very much. Have a lovely day, as lovely as you are! 😊

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        1. Oh! You are so kind!!!<3 Thank you so much for your sweet sentiment, you too have a beautiful day! 🙂

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  2. beingalive says:

    thats a lovely write up with agreat message

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    1. Oh thank you so much! I am glad to hear you enjoyed this message! I appreciate your kind comments 🙂

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  3. dpranita583 says:

    My dear, you are awesome. Super story.

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    1. Aww, thank you so much for your beautiful comment! You made my day happy! 🙂 ❤

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      1. dpranita583 says:

        Welcome, can you allow me to publish one post on your site. [ it maybe spiritual or mental ]

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        1. Thank you for the offer dear DPranita, but I already have plenty of material for my blog. I would suggest you write the article it in your blog and I would be happy to read it. 🙂

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          1. dpranita583 says:

            Give me your content with 2 links I will publish it on my blog to get benefit both for traffic to get.


          2. dpranita583 says:

            Its all right.

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  4. LindaP says:

    What a wonderful story and so true!

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    1. Thank you Linda! So glad you enjoyed it! 🙂


  5. inspirechief says:

    A great lesson we should all learn. Thank you for sharing.


    1. Thank you so much for your visit and your beautiful comment! 🙂 You are most welcome!

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